stolen from Kass...
Dec. 4th, 2009 | 10:10 pm
location: kitchen counter
mood:
tired
music: silence... :)
You know how sometimes people on your friendslist post about stuff going on in their life, and all of a sudden you think "Wait a minute? Since when were they working THERE? Since when were they dating HIM/HER? Since when?" And then you wonder how you could have missed all that seemingly pretty standard information, but somehow you feel too ashamed to ask for clarification because it seems like info you should already know? It happens to all of us sometimes.
Please copy the topics below, erase my answers and put yours in their place, and then post it in your journal! Please elaborate on the questions that would benefit from elaboration. One-Word-Answers seldom help anyone out.
NAME: Jacqueline Ann Bowne, aka Jax, Squeaky, Tazzy, The Brain, sweety, brat, l'il sister, baby girl
AGE: almost 35
LOCATION: Redmond, Washington (Seattle eastside)
OCCUPATION: Independent personal trainer. I was working for Fitness Together until March, when the owner of the shop closed it down. She was an executive V.P. at a local bank and managed to micromanage her business into the ground. So, I've been doing my own thing since then. Got a couple of clients, and I train sometimes at their homes and sometimes out of my garage. Got a lot of equipment from the old facility when it shut down, and had a bunch of stuff already, so I'm in pretty good shape on the Garage Gym thing. Want fitness?
PARTNER(s): Mark Simms, since 2001. We refer to ourselves as "Da Us"
PARENTS: Father (Robert) died in March of 1997- he was 51. Mom (Maureen) died August 25th of this year- she was 59. This is why I was home soo much this past summer.
SIBLINGS: Older sister Michelle (36) who now lives with me and Mark. Younger brother Rob (almost 32- his birthday is the day before mine), who lives back in NJ.
PETS: none. Allergic to cats, small allergy to dogs, and a lot of other hairy/furry critters (except Mark).
LIST THE 3-5 BIGGEST THINGS GOING ON IN YOUR LIFE:
1. After my mother died this summer, my sister Michelle moved out to Seattle with us. This is after she broke up with her sweety of 18 years (who was a real jerk), quit her job, and decided she needed, wanted and deserved better in her life. We drove cross-country in a Ford Explorer with all her worldly possessions in the back (and mom's ashes on the center console between the seats). 2 weeks after we got here, her former sweety of 18 years dropped dead. Michelle, Mark and I have been learning how to live together, still maintaining our individuality, independence and keep some happy "home-shui" going.
2. Mark's dad has been in the hospital for almost 4 weeks now. Brucie had bowel cancer last year and all was well after surgery & treatments, then found spots on liver this year. he collapsed after the end of treatments a month ago and his liver was doing crazy wierd stuff. Mark had to leave a conference in LA to head home to St. John's because the doctors weren't even sure what was going on or what to do. Mark has been home 2 weeks, and is planning on returning to me on Sunday. Dad has been improving slowly, but steadily (thankfully). We've all been worried about dad, while I have been fighting to be supportive of Mark & family, and not let energy & emotion from my recent parental loss shadow me and my days.
3. Since all the family drama that has been going on the past 6 months, I have not been taking care of myself as well as I should have. Emotional eating & some mild depression, etc... has caused a more than 20 pound weight gain. I am not happy in my skin currently, and have been working on getting back into the "Jackie zone". Considering it's the holidays (which I'm not a fan of to begin with), I've really been fighting to make sure I have "me" time, which mostly means time in the gym or working out/taking care of me.
4. Been working really hard with one of my clients who is extremely motivated, which gives me an extreme happy. Finally starting to see some really good results/transformations with her body, which is driving both of us even more.
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Veteran's Day...
Nov. 11th, 2009 | 10:16 am
Here's some interesting tidbits about famous people who have served in the U.S. military forces. Some you may be surprised to see listed:
http://www.military.com/veterans-day/the
http://www.military.com/veterans-day/fam
Semper Fi!
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return from the land of the lost...
Oct. 5th, 2009 | 04:32 pm
location: kitchen counter
mood:
happy
music: Senate Band
I will post the story and associated pictures in the next week or so, after I've had time to reacclimatize to being home for good now. :)
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Idle Thoughts...
Jun. 16th, 2009 | 09:25 am
mood: awake
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A bit about you...
Jun. 11th, 2009 | 10:25 am
mood:
curious
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I declare war!!
Jun. 3rd, 2009 | 09:27 am
mood: awake
Who else is gonna be there? Gotta catch up with everyone. :)
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friday morning musings...
May. 8th, 2009 | 11:12 am
mood:
energetic
When I bike, or exercise in general, I sweat. I mean, really- I'm soaked by the end of the ride. So, I'm on the bike, pedalling my little heart out, and the small towel around my neck starts to slip and fall off. I turn my head to catch it with my mouth (don't ask me why i didn't grab it with my hands- it's not like I was in danger of falling if I wasn't holding on or anything), and in doing so, I managed to get a taste of the sweat on my shoulder. A big mouthful. Can I just say- I taste good. ;)
I now return you to your normal, and more useful than this, programming.
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tuesday afternoon...
Apr. 21st, 2009 | 04:52 pm
mood:
calm
Met up with Sharron (my former manager from the place that shut down, and now a close friend of mine) for lunch at a local Irish pub. It's soo nice out today, that we had our lunch at a table out on the patio in front of the pub. Shared a lovely visit, along with dessert and many laughs, and then she was off to do some kid wrangling (3 daughters, 3 different schools).
I went on another bike ride today. Since I did a fairly intense ride yesterday (compared to how i've been riding lately), I didn't want to go crazy today. Put some nice cruising music in the Ipod, like Bob Marley and Billy Joel, mixed in with some Bon Jovi and AC/DC for a couple of energy spurts, and I did 11 miles in 1 hour (yesterday I did 15 miles in the same timeframe). Riding on a populated trail really is an exercise in people watching. I think my favourite person I came across today was a gentleman riding a street bike, in full riding gear, with only one arm. The empty sleeve was neatly tucked up and stuffed in the sleeve opening at the shoulder, and if you didn't look closely, you would never had known. Had very nice form, and didn't look unbalanced in any way.
Mark is expecting to be working a bit late today, so I might go get some more yard work done in the back yard. Just another excuse to be outside and enjoy this weather while we still have it. Reports are that the weather is supposed to cool down as the week progresses, and rain is supposed to come back. blach.
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weekend recap...
Apr. 20th, 2009 | 08:51 pm
location: couch, next to sweety
mood:
happy
Friday is our usual "Sacred Date Night". This past friday, we decided to stay home and have some quiet us time. Some home-made dinner, a drink or two, and cuddled up on the couch together watching some tube. Quite a lovely evening.
Saturday was a decent day, and we turned it into our house cleaning day. Ran some errands, did many housechores along with some that have been on the back burner for a while. Pasta & homemade sauce for dinner, paired with some time on the couch cuddled up watching the first Harry Potter movie.
Sunday was a lovely day. Thankfully the weather all weekend was favourable for outdoor activities. We drove into downtown Seattle (15-20 minutes in good traffic conditions) and went to the Seattle Center, where the Cherry Blossom & Japanese heritage festival was happening this weekend. We made it out of the house by noon and got down to the center and found parking pretty easily. We arrived at one part of the center where some of the festival activities was happening, and it turned out to be the section we could have the most fun with. There was an outside stage set up, where different demonstrations were happening, one after the other. Most of what was being demonstrated was different styles of martial arts. We got to see local schools doing demos of: kendo, iado (the art of the sword), judo, aikido, a couple different styles of karate (the last one being shito-ryu, which is the style I got my black belt in). Other than going inside the building in between demos to look at other stuff (japanese calligraphy, origami, sword polishing, flower arranging, etc...) and finding some nice food- beef bowls and some mochi for dessert, we spent most of our time outside watching the demos. The very last demonstration that was on the schedule, and we saw most of before we had to go get the car (our time card was almost expired in the parking lot we left the car in), was taiko drumming. have I mentioned I absolutely LOVE taiko drums? It was an 8 person troupe (3 men, 5 women), and thankfully we found seats close to the front so we could get the full experience. Taiko drumming isn't just about the drums and the music their making- it's a visual performance as well. See, you just can't pick up the drumming sticks and bang on that large drum and not get dragged into the energy, just as you can't just sit in a chair, stoic and unexpressive, listening to the taiko either. The performers were jumping and shaking around with the music, and I probably looked like a mexican jumping bean after 3 cans of Red Bull, while I was using Mark's leg as my own drum. He was thoroughly amused.
We got home from the festival, and Mark had some work to finish up before Monday, so he headed into the other room and I went over to our friend Tristan's for sausage rolls and social time with her and a couple other friends. A couple of sausage rolls, some good ginger beer and homemade tira misu on Tristan's porch, followed by looking at interesting and silly videos on youtube for a bit, and then off to home I went, listening to some taiko music I put in the cd player in the car earlier. Cuddled up with sweety when I got home and called it a night.
Today continued to be a gorgeous day, so there was not much time spent inside. Mark was off to work, and I puttered about for a little bit. Got some more house chores done, dropped some stuff off to Mark that he had forgotten at home, then after lunch I was out the door and gone! There is a really nice park in town, a couple miles away. It is a hub for a lot of nice trails, so I put Mark's new bike on the back of the car (my bike currently has a flat and I wanted to try out his new ride anyways), and off to Marymoor Park I went. Weather was nice, I was motivated, so I did a 15 mile round trip ride. Took me a little over an hour start to finish, which was really good time I think. The trail I usually do is paved and typically has a lot of people riding on it (did I mention we live in the biking capital of the northwest?), so I found a guy ahead of me who was doing a decent pace, and drafted off him for a little while. I've done this before, either to give myself a rest and a slower pace for a bit, or to challenge myself to keep up with someone else's pace. The guy figured out what I was doing, and even slowed down to wait for me when I lagged behind a bit on a hill (I had geared down to conserve energy on the hill, and he hadn't). Did a warm down afterwards at the velodrome they have in the park. After picking up Mark and heading home, we did a bit of much needed yard work while dinner was cooking. Got the back yard mowed after getting the sticks and pine cones off the ground (much work). Dinner consisted of a tri-tip beef roast with baked potatoes, cooked on the smoker for an hour, along with a salad. And sweety just brought out some french vanilla ice cream for dessert.
All in all, a very pleasant weekend. Tomorrow is supposed to be another lovely day, so I'll be out on the bike again tomorrow. Might get a bit more house chores done, and probably fix the flat on my bike, so we can go riding together this week. :)
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Rawr! (Stolen from Freya)
Apr. 11th, 2009 | 09:06 am
mood:
calm
| You Are a Cougar |
Your power gives you confidence, and you find leading others to be easy. You believe that you need to the best, and you are very driven to excel. Most people immediately admire you, but some people feel very envious of your abilities. |
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What Religion Should You Be?
Mar. 14th, 2009 | 10:06 am
mood: awake
| You Should Follow Hinduism |
Religion is a lifelong, personal journey for you, and you don't deal with dogma or rules well. You see spirituality as a union of intuition and reason. No one has all the answers. You spend a good amount of your time meditating, doing good deeds, or improving your karma. |
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my personality type...
Mar. 12th, 2009 | 07:06 pm
mood:
hungry
| You Are An ESTJ |
You're a natural leader and a quick, logical decision maker. Goals are important in your life, and you take many steps to achieve them. You enjoy interacting with others, mostly through work related activities. Your high energy level means that you are great at getting things done! In love, you tend to bring stability to relationships. You feel comfortable being in charge, and you enjoy being a provider. At work, you take charge. You thrive in structured environments and don't mind enforcing the rules. You would make a great teacher, judge, or police detective. How you see yourself: Realistic, stable, and pragmatic When other people don't get you, they see you as: Rigid, bound to rules, and a bad listener |
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This weekend...
Feb. 22nd, 2009 | 12:06 pm
location: couch
mood:
amused
Friday found me and Mark heading out on our usual "Sacred friday night date nights", not sure what we were going to do, but something. After a pleasant trip to Lowes to get some stuff to help further organize the garage, I received a text message from my manager, Sharron. We joined her and some of her friends and associates at Palmers, a pub a couple blocks from work. It was a pleasant evening, meeting like minded people, having some decent pub grub, and enjoying everyone's company, until karaoke started. Then it was time to leave. Very nice night.
Saturday we headed out to Steven's Pass to do a bit of snow-splatting. Mark has been skiing before, and I've never been on the slopes in my life, so we had a nice compromise in learning how to snowboard together. Signed up for the 2-hour group lesson, which was a total hoot. Our instructor was very helpful and a lot of fun. Of course I got the nickname "Jackie Brown" due to the frequent mispronounciation of my last name. It was all good, even after I reminded him that I was not a tall, busty, black woman, expect when I play one on tv. Ironically, we just turned the tv on this morning and guess what movie was showing on TNT- Jackie Brown! Anyways, 2 hours of boarding lessons, and I was doing pretty good on the little hill that we were practicing on. I was able to get off the snow and onto my feet, do both heel side and toe side, side slips, stop, transition, and glide. Chris, our instructor, was very happy with my progress. Mark was coming along also, albeit with more butt-splat time than me. At the end of the training lesson, we went over to the "Daisy lift" to take us up the hill to try a real slope. Chris felt we were all ready to brave a bit more incline & distance, though 3 people in our group (we started with 8) opted out of the lift and wanted to stay over on the little training hill.
Learned how to get on the lift without injury or incident (it can be tricky with a snowboard strapped to 1 foot) and off we were to the the top of Easy Street slope. It was a lot longer than it looked like at the bottom, but Chris had faith that we could make it to the bottom without serious injury. Oh, did I mention that we saw 3 ambulances coming away from the slopes on our way up to the slopes? So, top of the hill, strap the other foot onto the board, a few last minute reminders and positive reinforcement from Chris, and off we went down the slope. I managed to keep my feet under me for a good while, making very small adjustments in body weight from one foot to the other, as needed, to keep myself from flying off the side of the hill, or into other people, and things were going good. Only fell a couple of times, and I was quickly back on my board and on down the hill again. I had gotten a pretty good speed going, was feeling good, getting comfortable, then- SPLAT! A spectacular wipe out! My hat went in one direction, goggles in another, i'm surprised my sunglass clips stayed on my glasses, my body went in 17 different directions it felt like. I was laughing at how ridiculous it must have looked, then felt a slight pain in my right thumb. I never knew until that moment that it was possible to bend back almost the entire fingernail from *inside* a glove. Ok, stick thumb straight down into the snow to ease the pain momentarily, bend back nail into place (didn't break or crack, just bent in one piece), put glove back on, and continue down the hill. Made it down the rest of the way with little incident and decided to take a break. Man that ride down the hill hurt- butt was bruised, hips were very sore, busted up thumb that was now throbbing, i have this lovely purple spot next to my tailbone now, and i think i bruised my cheek (on my face) from the big wipe out. But it was one hell of a ride!! :)
At the end of the day, we had a lovely ride home, reminiscing about the different splats we experienced and how much fun it was. Next time we go, I'm gonna try ski's on my feet. Mark says there's less of a chance of that kind of spectacular splatting on 2 sticks instead of 1 board. :)
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Snowy in Seattle
Dec. 20th, 2008 | 05:50 pm
location: home on couch
mood:
relaxed
music: Navy Seals on military channel...
Right...
We got slammed the other day with more than 6 inches of snow on the ground, covering a layer of ice from the rain that fell earlier in the night before it got cold enough for snow to happen. This caused many a car to find themselves off the road, into other cars, facing the wrong way, etc. Some roads looked like scenes out of a movie, with me having to drive through an automotive obstacle course because 20 cars and 3 big rigs and a metro bus couldn't make it up a small hill. Me, driving our Subaru Outback AWD with 17 inch tires, along with 2 SUVs in front of me, maneouvered through the pile of cars and managed to get through ok. That was thursday morning, around 6:30am. Once I got home, I didn't leave the house till friday evening when I needed to stop by the grocery store. If you're interested, go to www.king5.com and check out the story about the 2 buses that collided coming down a hill and were hanging over the interstate in downtown Seattle. Crazy...
Fast forward to saturday afternoon... Now, this area which doesn't get snow but has 6 inches on the ground, is bracing for another snow storm tonite. We have been told by the news people that the storm the other day was a "dress rehearsal" for what is about to come tonite. We are expecting 5-8 inches, followed by freezing rain, all of which is paired with dangerous winds that can cause tree limbs to come down, along with power outtages.
I am prepared. I have been searching for a week for rock salt or ice melt, all of which has been sold out for a long time. I picked up two 60 pound bags of sand today from Home Depot (i win!). I am fully stocked with water, bottled drinks, and non-perishable foodstuffs. I have flashlights, lanterns, candles, and glow sticks on standby on my dining room table, along wtih matches, lighter and extra batteries. I have a full propane tank on the barbeque outside, as well as a full spare tank. I have the Coleman stove and the camp grill staged in the garage, along with the propane tree & necessary hoses and attachments. First aid kit is stocked, gas tank in car is full (did it earlier this week before everyone started freaking out). I have cash on hand in case power goes out and money machines are down for a few days. Extra blankets, wool socks, and sweaters are on standby.
I am ready- Bring it on!! :)
I am home alone because Mark is back in St. John's visiting his family for holidays (too expensive for both of us to go). My sister is supposed to be flying in tomorrow night, but that doesn't look promising, due to her having to fly from Newark through Chicago, who are both getting hit with winter weather as well, before she even gets here. We'll see how things go. I do have a couple of people I know out here in case things really go to crap, as well as being able to head into work for refuge if needed. Will keep people posted when there are things to post.
Where ever you are, and whatever you're doing- stay safe and stay warm. Make sure you're prepared for whatever weather is visiting your area, and have a plan. Gee, I'm starting to sound like Freya... :)
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Interesting...
Dec. 9th, 2008 | 07:53 pm
mood:
tired
| Which creature of the night are you? Your Result: Werewolf You are a vicious fighter and a vicious lover, absolutely dedicated to your pack. You are pushed to anger by disloyalty and injustice and have a tendency toward sudden, periodic bursts of wild behavior. | |
| Cthulu Spawn | |
| Demon | |
| Vampire | |
| Sorceror | |
| Incubus/Succubus | |
| Ghost | |
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Thanksgiving..
Nov. 27th, 2008 | 08:23 am
location: couch
mood:
calm
music: history channel
With us new to the area out here in Seattle, and never having "done" the holiday thing ourselves, we've decided to start our own tradition out here (notes taken from a few beloved friend's books). We're hosting Thanksgiving Orphans Dinner tonite at our house. We are new here, and don't have family or a close social circle to spend it with, and we know people in the same situation. One couple who is coming is expereincing the same exact thing we are- he recently moved to the area for work (with Honeywell) and his lady arrived up here within days of when I arrived. The men have similar interests (both are engineers and love to cook), and us ladies get along famously, usually mocking our men. Another couple in attendance will be one of Mark's coworkers and his lady wife. They are from India and I'm not sure if they've ever experienced a thanksgiving dinner. Others were invited, but have declined for various reasons. Still, I think this will be a most pleasant and interesting evening. I will post after-action details probably tomorrow.
I have a couple of clients who wanted to come in tomorrow, so I will be in the shop training for a few hours friday late morning and early afternoon. After that, Mark and I are running away from home for the weekend. We went north to Friday Harbor 2 weeks ago to see The Battlefield Band, so this weekend the plan is to go south. We do not have a destination, just a direction. As long as we have gas in the tank, tunes in the machine, our trusty GPS (who's called "Gippus"), and each other, the destination does not matter.
I am thankful for all of you I call my friends, and consider my family. Each one of you have helped shape who and what I am today, either through words or action. I am grateful for you all, though I may not see or speak with you often. I am also thankful to have the ability and opportunities in life to do good for people, not just myself. I have a sweety who is my best friend and confidante, and nothing can compare to that. I am a very lucky person in this life. :)
Enjoy your dinners tonite, whatever they look or taste like. Enjoy those who break bread with you, and remember those who are not at your table anymore.
Happy Thanksgiving
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Must. Do. Something...
Nov. 24th, 2008 | 07:21 pm
location: soon- exercise bike
mood:
annoyed
music: NCIS on tv
Off to sweat-ville I go. Be back in a while...
...got my 30 minutes in on the bike, while watching NCIS- endorphin high and badass federales make me happy. Is all good... :)
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Giving in...
Nov. 14th, 2008 | 10:12 am
location: office at work...
mood:
energetic
music: tv in the background
Ok, I've seen this on a number of friends lj's, so I am curious enough to find out what you guys think of me in this regard:
If you saw me in the back of a police car, what would you think I was arrested for?
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THANK YOU...
Nov. 10th, 2008 | 08:19 pm
mood:
thoughtful
music: Marines hymn...
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This explains a lot...
Oct. 22nd, 2008 | 09:59 pm
location: couch, next to sweety
mood:
hyper
music: bouncing of my knee (fidgeting)
| You Are 75% Hyper |
People wonder how you are able to get so much done. You love to keep busy. It's likely that you're very physically active as well. You have a lot of physical endurance. You are also quite outgoing. You're quick to start up a conversation and make friends. You have the drive, confidence, and motivation to take you far in life. While you may tire some people out, someone else is always looking to feed off your energy. |


